Somehow the creator must have had a sense of humour when creating woman. Woman' s nurturing instincts will protect the relationship and family unit to no end, accepting even a cheating lover or spouse back time and time again.

This has always got me thinking about what the driving forces are? Is it security, is it territorial, is it emotional, is it the bond, is it the sex, is it a combination of all, is it some cosmic force that keeps people together regardless, what is it?

I read many posts about cheating and how the cheater is taken back time and time again and its so easy to do the judgemental thing and give advice for or against the guilty party. To what end does one deprive ones self of self respect and learning the lesson when the cheater carries on doing what comes easy because they know that there will always be a safe haven in the arms of the one who is being cheated on.

What is it ? I really need a woman to shed some light and their views on this matter.