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15 Nov 2004

Throwing people away???
Is it unreasonable to be upset after finding out that a relative has given an unplanned baby up for adoption? She has three other children already and working part-time. What I do not understand is why all the secrecy around it. Another relative happened to see it written on the chart when she was being admitted. How can she throw a human being away like that? Or am I just sentimental because I also have a small baby of my own. But I feel very sorry for the child and think that as people we should learn that our actions have consequences.
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01 Jan 0001

I'm not quite sure why you fel that this is your business ? If she is unable to care properly for the child, the child may have a far happier life if given for adoption to someone who really wants him / her. But this relative surely urgently needs detailed advice about contraception, so as to stop having babies she can't afford to care for properly. Unplanned babies are not unavoidable.
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