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21 Dec 2004

time to go
If he were here this is what I would say:
I am not going to punish myself for not having tried harder - you should have tried harder - we've had nearly a year to decide what we want - I made a vow of celibacy and kept to it cos if I wanted to be with you it would be for all the right reasons. Temptamtion was rife and all over the damned place but all i thought about was the love inside for the man I truly want to be with.
Since you cannot love me or treat me right - I have to do this for me! Otherwise I will end up destroying myself - I refuse to be a wreck just because of the love that torments me inside.
Yes it's love but love should not hurt..... at least not this bad
So forgive me. it's not that I dont care _ i just dont want to see you , hear from you or even know that you exist..... for a while at least.
Give me space, give me time.
Maybe the time away will be good, Maybe you'll find someone you can truly love, thar person surely is not me.
I am the type of person that when respect is gone everything else follows suite.
I am so sorry that I have wasted my time, effort, feelings, sorry if I caused an inconvenience.
Be fair enough to give me the time to grieve and accept tjhat this can never be.
I dont hate you. I just need time out......pls.
Please do not call me or contact me. You know I am a strong and beautiful person - you know I will come out of this a stronger woman - you know that scares you.
I guess life is now full circle
I love you - Good bye
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well expressed, with grace and dignity. We recognize the you that you describe here, and are confident that you will indeed emerge from this storm still stronger
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