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23 Nov 2005

To all the brothers in the forum!
A LADY DESERVES TO BE TOLD THIS...
1) I love you
2) I just called to hear your voice.
3) Is there anything I can do to make things better?
4) You look nice today.
5) Did you lose some weight?
6) You complete me.
7) I missed you.
8) No matter what happens, we will get through this together.
9) Your kids just don't know how lucky they are to have you as a mother.
10) Enjoy your night out with the girls.
11) I'm sorry.
12)You did a good job.
13) I need you.
14) If that`s what you really want to do, I`m behind you all the way.
15) I`m proud of you.
16) Let`s go out tonight.
17) God must have spent a little more time on you.
18) Whenever you`re frustrated, depressed, confused or feeling that the whole world is closing in on you, remember that I`m here for you.
19) Take the break you need
20) You were right; I was wrong.
21) I trust you.
22) Did you make an appointment to get a mammogram and Pap smear?
23) I don`t care what anyone says; I know I couldn`t have done it without you.
24) Thank you for being the woman that you are.

Making a woman feel like a woman and reassuring her that she`s Your woman are the most powerful ingredients in an incandescent love relationship. Remember, Brothers, there is extraordinary power in the spoken word. So if you have a woman in your life that has changed your life,then start to speak up!
She usually isn`t fancy enough or pretty enough to turn our heads. She might not have a 36-26-36 figure or possess a fancy pedigree or degree. She might not have a "body like Janet with a Halle Berry face". But as you mature, you`ll realize it is better to find someone who loves you for you than a body to impress your buddies.
A good woman doesn`t just shut up and open her legs. She does however need a man who will listen and be attentive, because she will surely give you that.
She won`t need you to prove your love constantly if you make her feel secure from the start. A good woman is not the perfect face, body and certainly not to be compared to other women you have known or would like to know. She is not perfect but her love is perfect in its unconditional nature.

She needs your kindness, gentleness, and support. She doesn`t Need to feel as if she is on display; only valued for her appearance Or sexual prowess - both of which must inevitably depreciate with time.

A good woman doesn`t necessarily have to look like a model, Cook like a chef, love like a wildcat, or have the body of a 20 year old. She doesn`t always agree with you and may push you as she pushes Herself to do better and be a better person. Don`t judge her by centerfold standards. Look within her to see her true value.
Not all women are controlling, demanding, nags. I think its all said and done, have a fantastic day...
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Interesting thoughts ; but I'm with Delene, except for the pap smear, don't men need the same sort of reassurance and empowerment ?
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