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04 Oct 2009

To be in a relationship for the sake of it?
Hey,

Is it better to be in a relationship for the sake of it or not to be in one at all?

I met a girl, but there wasn' t as much spark from my side as from her side... I' ve been single for a while, but dont want to end up hurting her down the line... but not being able to give back what she is offering me.

What do you suggest?



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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

What is the point of a relationship at all ? What, really, does "for the sake of it " mean ? Is it done so that other people will notice that you're "in a relationship" ? If so, why do they and their opinions matter ? You met a girl --- and you do NOT feel "a spark " and probably neither you nor she would enjoy a relationship ? Why proceed with it, then ? It is likely that both of you could get hurt, and there's no upside I can see
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