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02 Dec 2005

To CS: re Vacation
It is funny how senstive one becomes to anything that looks like criticism when in a situation of turmoil or uncertainty. So I am not sure how to interpret your comments and I apologise for that. The answer is simply that I do not know - at the moment it looks like yes because we cannot take the other party with us. So as long as she is part of the setup - it will be alone.

I understand you were feeling somewhat under the weather. Trust you will get well soon. You have become part of a great support structure for many people - hats off to you.

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01 Jan 0001

Yes, you are being over-sensitive. Nobody is alone when accompanied by two people who love you. You may FEEL alone when someone you want to be there, isn't there, but that's a different matter --- and it would be sad for the boys, if they went with you, and found you feeling "alone" in their presence.
So, enjoy the holiday, and give 15 seconds a day ( no more ) to think of those of us who won't be getting away at all. And we look forward to hearing about the trip after you return.
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