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20 Jul 2005

To LP - re "What do you think?"

Well, actually, you can't read the writing on the wall because your back is up against it (can't remember who first said that - someone famous, like Churchill or Britney Spears, not sure) but, chap, its clear as daylight to me that you are being used as a stop-gap, a temporary hang-around.

I don't get this "I'm confused" rubbish - what does it mean? "That I may have feelings for you and I may not and I may have feelings for someone I used to know and I may not?" What? As far as I am concerned she's keeping her options open - you being the second choice. Second, no matter whatany silver medallist tells you, is less appealing than first.

She tells you to trust her - trust, my friend, is earned and not given because she wants to keep secrets from you and use trust a vehicle to torture you with. So this is the second time she's had this "issue", this mysterious problem so, if the past is the best predictor of the future, she'll have it again and again. If you are still around, shining your silver medal, you just have to trust her again.

I say leave her so that she can concentrate on settling and sorting her issues. Find a girl that has no baggage - otherwise you'll be a porter for a long, long time.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

No, wasn't Britney Spears that British wartime leader ? Nice advice, and I enjoy the wit with which you express yourself !
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