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22 Nov 2004

To: Pillars RE: Boyfriend troubles
1. I'm happy with my career. (not my boss though - but that's another story)
2. My family life is just fine. My sisters, brother and mother are supportive, we visit each other often - even go out and jol together.
3. My spiritual side is getting along fine too. I'm happy with what I believe in as well as what I do to continue in those beliefs.
4. I've go lots of true friends. The kind that I can go out and have fun with - plus who are there for me as a shoulder to cry on. They never turn me down or make me feel bad because of my problems.
5. Healthwise - I'm taking responsibilty for that too - drink my pills religiously, go see my psychiatrist once a week currently since my medication still needs some adjustment.
6. Sure I'm studying. The right guy doesn't need to be studying too however. I would just like him to have some ambition - with goals (like me) and plans to get there (also like me).

I'm afraid your analysis is completely incorrect (actually sounds like the balanced lifestyle session I went to whilst at the clinic - without taking anything I've mentioned into consideration).

I don't want a partner to rely on for the gaps in my life. I want a partner I can rely on fullstop. Not someone who is always there needing me. Relationships are a two-way street. It feels like I'm doing everything in this relationship - making sure HE drinks his pills. I even had to go fetch him from the mall last week - where he wanted to leave his bicycle and have me drop him off at home. Can he afford to buy a new bicycle - NO. Plus he needs it to get to work!

Rather not try to analyze if you have insufficient information.

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01 Jan 0001

Sounds like a number of good achievements, and a realistic set of expectations.
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