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08 Aug 2008

trust
im always having a big issue trusting people... and my girlfriend..

when i see someone is added on facebook or someone looks at her the wrong way, i get so mad and want and need to know why she knows him were they together, why she added him or why he added her on facebook, shes getting fedup and we have big fights over this,she says she wants to be with me and only me shes 18 but very mature,she says shes finished with jolling around and everything but still i get so frustrated with myself becasue i worry about she cheating on me the whole time....and im hurting her by not trusting her..i get so enfused in my feelings that i feel down and irritated the whole time....
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Such excessive sense of jealousy usually arises from low self-esteem and an unfair though sincere expectation that somehow you don't truly deserve the loce of someone really nice and so that it feel inevitable that they wouldcheat on you. See a personal counsellor, preferably one practising CBT, the most effective form, and learn to enhance your self-esteem and grow your ability to be appropriately trusting
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