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06 Dec 2005

Unloved
We have been together for 9 yrs, have x 2 wonderful children,but I feel unloved.Weve spoken aware theres a problem,says it him and not me but under a lot of stress.I dont want to live like a brother and sister staying together, I want to be with someone wheres theres passion, love, etc.We have sex approx 2 a month.My way to deal with constantly being ignored is to retreat,make sure we dont sit together when at friends, keep busy talking to others, but deep down Im very hurt. I constantly bring up the lack of physical closeness,but he says he is trying but is not a young teen anymore- his 40 and even try and initate sex which lands up in a argument as he is too tired, theres a vibre when we go to bed, its so quite, lie on either side,watch tv, turn over say goodnight, where did the love go.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Marriage counselling ? Surely ! Taht way you have continuign expert advice, a referee, and a setting in which the complex interactions involved here, can be examine and potentially changed
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