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30 Jun 2005

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Hi everyone!!!!
I thought I should give you an update about our trip. Anyway on Friday I decided to drive on my own with my car. We were contacting each other all the way, stop for a rest and continue with the trip. Eventually one had to take his/her direction, the trip was very nice and it really made a lot of contribution into our lives. We drove down to Jozi on Monday and we were both off on Tuesday. I brought up the issue of this woman yesterday actually I asked him his purpose in my life. And I told him that I feel like a complete stupid cause here am I spending so much time with him but deep down his heart is not with me. We argued a lot and he told me that we cant fight over someone. We both know where the problem lies, he need my support to help him come out of that relationship. I told him that its his babe, he has to sort it out but one thing for sure I wont be another woman. He said I must tell him what to do, still I refused I told him its pointless to say do this because you are the one who knows how you feel about us. I cant say leave her for me it has to be your decision cause you know what you want at the end of the day. Anyway he promised to sort things out before the end of this week. Anyway they say actions speaks louder than words, I'll wait and see what's gonna happen. He also suggested that we go away this weekend again but with one car this time around. Im convinced that the man loves me I can see it from his face and I must say ever since we had our arguement he's been spending most of his time with me. Since we came back from home, he's been with me everyday we only part ways when in the mornigs when we both go to work. To me it looks like the beggining of a relationship with a great potential. For now I think Im doing the right thing but obvious Im expecting you guys have the same opinion as mine, what do you think?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Thanks for the update --- do let us know what happens next.
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