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25 Nov 2004

Urgent advice needed
I need advice urgently here. My b/f and I broke up on Friday and he said he would come and collect his stuff on Sunday. I never heard a word since then, so I sms'ed him to tell him to come today because the maid is there. He asked if he could come next week and then asked how I am. I replied he could come next week and that I was fine. I am not fine. I am hurting inside. I dont think he cares a damn about me. What do you think?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Actually, from the outside, looking in, we can't guess how he actally feels about you. Maybe he cares, maybe he doesn't. As Q says, there's no good reason why you should continue to store his stuff if it is distressing you. it sounds as if he may be having second thoughts about the breakup -- how you deal with that depends on what you want and how you feel. think carefully over the comments by angel and me.
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