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10 Nov 2004

wanna be a prostitute
I'm a 30 yr old married woman with a 2 yr old son. We've been married for a year now but we have fiancial difficulties.I've got a post grad degree but cannot get decent work. I'm intelligent if I can say so myself but I'm also an introvert. I've seen people I've been with at varsity , they have progressed in life. They drive nice cars,go on exotic holidays , have nice houses abd i have none of these . I dont know I sometimes think i'm jinxed. Not getting a job I deserve has damaged my self esteem . I started doubting my intellectusl capability even though I know I'm clever.We need money, we're struggling. Yesterday I wanted to boost my morale upa bit , just to make myself feel good. i got into my short mini skirts which i have'nt worn for a while, my nice sexy blouse and high stiletto shoes. I looked myself in the mirror and realised that men would'nt be able to resist a hooker like me. I'm nicely built, beautiful and all. I had a picture of all the othe prostitutes I see around here in CT and I felt that I cannot even compare myself to them I'm way above their league. Which therefore means I can get clients easier. I considered prostituting secretely- My husband should never know. I dont want to lean against poles at night.I'm thinking of putting my details on newspaper and be called upon service whenever needed. My hubby works away from home most of the time therefore I'll have time . I heard on special assignment some time ago that these people make lots of money. I need money and I'm seriously considring doing that.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Lolly, surely, if you're even half as intelligent as you say, you must be joking ? You really think it's that simple ? You think the constant risk of STD and HIV, of being beaten up ( or worse ) by clients, would be an enjoyable way to make a good profit ? And how would you explain the extra money to your husband ? And do you really think they regular pimps and prostitutes would welcome your competition ? And when one of the clients turns out to be someone you and your husband knows ? And who will look after your child while Mommy's out prostituting herself ? When your child finds out, as eventually he'she probably will, have you worked how to explain it to him / her ?
Better to sit down with your husband and discuss whatever financial problems you two might have, see how the budget might be trimmed, and maybe look for a part-time job.
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