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26 Jul 2005

war in my head
I have this ex b/f who I am still deeply in love with. I will basically do anything for him. Maybe it is obsession, I really dont know. We do a lot of things together like movies, dinner, lunches, etc, but I need to see other people as well as he hasnt made a commitment to me. The problem is, I am meeting all these wonderful men who can give me so much more than this ex of mine can. I feel like there is this war going on inside my head and I dont know what to do! Please help me.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds more like an obsession, and quite excessive devotion towards an Ex, who doesn't deserve or need it. If you keep meeting together, what is "EX" about this relationship, though ? See a counsellor, rid yourself of your hopeless wish for more than he can give you, and let yourself become open to the possibilities of the better men you have been meeting.
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