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14 Jul 2005

Was i losing my mind?????????
Hi there

i used to have aproble with my husband even before we got married.I'd always try and digg things that would lead that he's cheating on me, he ha never done anything that could have leaded me to believe he was cheating, but i would always follow up on everything even cellphone. One day we had a fight about it and one day on his outbox( cell) i found a message that was telling another girl romantic things and when i confanted him he said he did it to show me that i must trust him because whatever he wanted to do i had no control over it, so he later said he wrote it so that i can see it and really know how it would feel like to know someone is really cheating and especially me because i have been accusing him of something he's not doing.But still after i had seen that message i followed up and wanted to see if there's any strange behavior but he' not receiving any suspicios calls,no messages, he's almost always with me, because i certainly think no girlfreind would agree on being told which hours to phone and which our not to phone and send sms's. Do you think he was cheating or i was just being unreasonable to him, but he is still teh man i fell in love with when i was 15 and now we are married, do i have any reason to doubt him, he's been the same ever since but i just don't seem believe that it's possible for a man to have one woman.are there man out there that are one only attached to one woman??????
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I really cannot manage to keep ansering th same questions when they get repeated so often. Check the archives of this forum under Cheating, suspicion / suspicious, accusing, and so on. I have discussed pathological jealousy repeatedly
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