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14 Jul 2006

weet nie hoe om te reageer nie
vraag: 2608 -nr. 2
Ons het ontmoet toe eenaand gejol,was onverantwoordelik,het swanger geword en aborsie gehad,hy wou ook nie die kind gehad het nie,en ek ook nie.
Maar ek het verwag hy moet my ondersteun,at least vra hoe gaan dit,of alles oraait is,maar hy het nie.

Ek het gemengde gevoelens oor hom,dan verlang ek hom,het seksuele gedagtes oor ons,dan is ek weer kwaad vir hom en blameer ek hom oor alles.

Nou wil hy praat met my, maar ek kan nie,kry dit nie reg nie.

Help my asseblief ek is so verwaard, Enigeiemand.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

See a good local counsellor to work through all these issues. A guy who is prepared to get you pregnant, insist on an abortion, and give you no emotional support through that time, is surely not worth loving or planning to spend more time with. Isn't the main reason behind your thinking of him, a form of loneliness ?
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