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04 Apr 2006

What can i do about this?
Hi,

I've known my boyfriend for 6 years and started dating 3 months ago. He has alot of female friends and vice versa. There is however one of his female friends who i can see likes him more than just a friend. She looks for attention all the time! We have spoken about it but he doesn't seem to think anything is wrong with it. He told me if he wanted to be with her he could have ages ago but does not find her mentally stimulating.

A friend of his and i arranged a birthday for him. I never had this girls number so i asked the friend to tell her where the party will be and what time, which he did. Then she smsed my boyfriend to find out if he was doing anything for his birthday and he said yes, Nads is arranging something. She then asked if she is invited. Doing this after his friend told her about the party. Then yesterday she pitched up at his work to bring him a present. He thought it was sweet!

She smses him telling him how sexy he is ect ect.

Am i being stupid or what? What can i do about this cause it is eventually going to cause friction in our relationship?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hello Nads,
Actually, it sounds as though he is NOT givi g her any paticular encouragement, or she would not have to work so hard at throwing herself at him.
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