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21 Jul 2005

What do i do
Hi Cybershrink

Please tell me what to do, this lady (tuitor) made me an offer that she wants to sleep with me.I go to her for private maths lessons.
I did not want to go to her for maths tuition, but my parents forced me to go as the matric pre-lims and final exams are very close.

I told my parents thati'll go to another tuitor but they refuse to send me there becuse my friend goes there,they say that if i go there, i won't learn.The reason why they send me to this private tuitor is as they keep telling me,you get "Individual attention"

What do i do?Do i telll my parents?Do i just keep quiet about the situation and tell this lady im not interested.What makes it worse is that she's married. She also touches me, puts her hands around me and tells me all sorts of things.

Please tell me what do i do,im also scared to tell my parents this,they may not believe me.Is this women a slut?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Report her immediately to your parents (telling them explicitly about the form of "individual attention" you are getting ), to the police, and to the education authorities. You don't mention your age or sex, but whatever they are, she is behaving disgracefully, and possibly criminally. And if sh's doing this with you, she may well be doing it wih other students, too. I don't see why your parents should not believe you. If they are stupid enough to force you to go to such a woman, tell her clearly that you refuse to accept her abusive and improper behaviour, and that if she tries anything remotely of this type, you will report it to her husband, your parents, and all relevant authorities. "recording" her is far more difficult than you think.
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