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31 Jul 2006

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME
HI ALL I HOPE YOU CAN HELP , I USED TO BE SINGLE SND RESLLY ENJOYED IT ........ I USED TO BE IN A ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP , VERBAL AND PHISICAL , I MET THIS OTHER WOMAN SHE IS AMAZING AND WE FELL IN LOVE , SHE HAS A FOUR YEAR OLD GIRL FROM A RELATIONSHIP ,ALSO ABUSIVE
WE GOT MARRIED AND WE NOW HAVE A 4 WEEK OLD BABY

I HAVE DECIDED TO FIND A SECOND JOB AND I WORK FROM 8 AM TO 10 PM MOST NIGHTS , I DONT MIND , JUST TRYING TO GIVE MY FAMILY THE BEST I CAN , 6 MONTHS AGO I WAS INVOLVED IN A ARMED ROBBERY , I WAS BEATEN BY THEM AND HAD A GUN STUCK IN MY MOUTH , I HAVE NEVA BEEN FOR COUNCELLING .................. MY PROBLEM IS THAT I HAS DAYS WHEN I JUST WNT TO BE LEFT THE HELL ALONE AND ARE MOODY , AND TREAT THE LITTLE GIRL (4 YEARS) TERRIBLE , I ALSO THROW IT UP IN MY WIFES FACE ABOUT HER HAVING SOME OTHER GUYS CHILD AND SAY WHY THE HELL SHOULD I LOOK AFTER HER WHEN THE KID IS NOT MINE, I SAY REALLY HURT FULL THINGS AND MY WIFE WANTS TO DEVORCE ME , I KNOW WE LOVE EACH OTHER I KNOW THIS AND WHEN I AM NORMAL , I AM THE MOST LOVING CARING ROMANTIC PERSON


PLEASE HELP WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME , WHY DO I LOSE IT LIKE THAT AM I SCHITZO
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Obviously you deserved and still deserve to see a counsellor to help you to recover from the robbery trauma. Also, you recognize that what you say is hurtful and unreasonable. Has this only started since the robbery, or got worse since then ? Why not also arrange to see a marriage counsellor together, and sort out this unnecessary friction ?
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