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06 Dec 2005

What to do?
I have been in a relasioship for five month now, and it veels like I am doing all I can and he is just along for the ride. We have moved in together a week ago it was his idea,after I broke up with him, and now I am not so sure this is what i whant. He works long hours and if he is not working he is drinking or sleeping.There is no romance and I have to do every thing for him. He only put me down by saying I am fat, or my hare does not look good enough or he wil coment on somthing small but it makes me very upset. If I trie to speek to him about anything thats upsetting me he get very angry or he will make a joke of it.Every thing is a joke with him and it drives me mad no serious conversation. No telling each other we real love them, I realy whant to make thing work between us, but how do I get him to open up to me and tell me what he want and how he veel about me.Or do I leeve him for good this time?

Any adive please
Thanx
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Who on earth would you want to be with a guy like that ? The breaking up sounds like it was a good idea, the getting back together and movinmg in together sounds like a really bad idea. This is how he is --- if that's not what you like, don't expect him to udnergo a miraculous transformation in the direction you're hoping for !
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