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25 Nov 2005

What's going on here?
There is this guys at work who makes me very uncomfortable. I get anxious when he is around. Sometiime I even start to get depressed. In summary I feel a range of not-so-nice feelings when he is around. From feeling useless to feeling depressed even after he has gone.

I don't why though. Socially he is a nice guy but workwise -lets just say a lot of people don't deal with him unless they really have to.

Fact is - I work with him so I can't afford to feel depressed every time I deal with him. I can really say why but I feel incapable around him also. I look at the things I've achieved and I say - was that me!

Please help.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Is there an HR dept with which you could discuss this ? Maybe they could approach him and mention that several people have reported that he has been ahving this effect on people, and suggest ways in which he could improve his interactions with others ?
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