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29 Nov 2005

which way 2 go?
when your husband lies to you time after time and has been doing things behind your back for so long what do you do? their is no trust in my marriage he has just done too much and i cant take it anymore im unhappy and part of me just wants to get on with my life. what i dont understand is he says he wiill change if i give him another chance, should he not change now? i have given him my reasons for not being able to go through this again and he tells me im just making excuses and i will be sorry if i leave and then i feel bad cause i do love him alot. i know he has a gf i have seen his messages on his phn and last nite i know he was with her but then he comes home telling me how much he loves but how after his been with her i dont understnd how he can do that. after all the things his done can he really change and would it work cause ill always be wondering is he lying whats he doing and im sure that creates more problems. why do i feel so bad for wanting to leave feels like ill break his heart and at the same time im scared to leave. what choice would be the best any advice?
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01 Jan 0001

Marriage counselling or separation or divorce --- or one accepts a highly unsatisfactory situation
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