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25 Feb 2004

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One of my friends is getting married this weekend. The problem is - me and my ex grilfriend (4 weeks) where invited to the wedding. Today I received a mail from her asking if we are still going to the wedding. Meaning together.
We have been ignoring each other for the past week (completely, no calls, no sms, no mail nothing) and now all of a sudden this. The break up was from her side - she needed some space bla bla bla (new guy I think)

What must I do ?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Bulldog, let's see what other readers suggest --- this isn't really a psychological / psychiaric issue, but one of etiquette, I suppose. Surely on the whole you owe it to your friend to attend the wedding, for his/her sake, whether or not you go with your Ex. Couldn't you send her an email or phone her and simply say that you intend to attend, but as the two of you have broken up in the meantime, maybe it's best if you go separately ?
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