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28 Nov 2004

Why am i suddenly so ... otherwise ??
Sorry CS couldnt think of another way to put it.

I cant understand whats going on with me ... I have found a job , I have found a house ... my family is coming down on Tuesday , my hubs is only going to work his notice in December then he is joining me here ....

Why am i now thinking I have made a mistake coming here ??? crazy ?? yes it is ...

Im trying to use logic here .. logic is telling me there was no future for us back in our tiny town , logic is telling me that with a bit of effort we will have a better life down here .... but logic aint telling me why i suddenly have the heebie jeebies...

I do know im battling to adjust to city life ... but then again I have only been out once in 6 weeks cos my dad is to sickly to do much .... I have been living in a very small flat , tuesday im back in my own home with garden and dogs and cats ...

I think u are going to tell me what I already know buts thats ok .. it will clear my brain and get my circuits going again.

Thanks CS ......
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hi Carol,
Well, it's hardly unusual to have second thoughts or doubts about such a major decision, even when you have managed it so well, and appear to be succeeding. Try to sort out whether this is a purely or largely emotional reaction, or whether there is some more rational reason for it. MAybe the feeling is aroused because whereas earlier on you felt you still had the option to turn round and go back, the point of irreversibility is close or maybe already reached ? Have I told you what you already know ? No extra charge for that, if so !
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