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16 Jul 2008

Why cant I be loved
Once again I sit here with a broken heart, trying to hold back the tears. Once again I've had someone cheat on me and I dont know what I'm doing wrong. THis time I went into the relationship with an open mind. I didnt suffocate him and was flexible. I didnt excessively call and sms. At the end of the day he realised that the was happier with his ex and went back to her. I'm independant, have a good job, have money in the bank. Live on my own, never moody and look after myself physically. In the past 3 years i have been cheated on over and over again. I dont what I'm doing I think I'm just not capable of being loved. The problem that this is creating is that I am becoming a recluse and I dont think that i ever want to give another man a chance, because it seems that all men are out to hurt me. I have so much to offer and people take and take and I ask nothing in return but for someone to respect me and the relationship that we are in, but it hasn't happened and at the age of 30 I dont see any hope of me finding the one. Life sucks sometimes.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

See a personal counsellor if this is a recurrent pattern; then you can examine these issues and find a better way of forming relationships and avoiding linking up with the wrong sort of people
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