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25 Feb 2009

Why did I?
Soon to be divorced my question is to find out the reason why I cheated on my husband.

I had the most wonderful relationship with a caring, soft hearted man. He was and will always be the love of my life. We were together for 3 years when he left me for a friend. When things didn' t work out (because he believed he loved me and that it' s with me that he wanted to spend his life) we got back together and a year later got married. After 3 years of marraige with a lot of challenges, hectic work and social schedule I met a man (younger than me). We could chat for hours on end, had the same interests and after 4 months we had a sexual encounter. My husband and I viewed the option for staying together and/or rather seperating. I decided in all fairness to rather pack my bags and go. I' m still seeing this other man. The only question that keeps popping up in my head is why? WE had such a beautiful relationship, why would I go and do something like that. Im not the cheating type at all and see myself as a one man woman. Why?
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01 Jan 0001

You can' tell us why you cheated, but you think maybe we could tell you ? Is that realisic ? Why, earlier, did the man who said he loved you so much, cheat on you ? Did you value the flattery and sexual attentions of the other man more than the peace and love of your husband ?
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