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30 Jul 2010

why do i attract such ppl - this is becoming a problem
Hi CS and All

I have a concern, really! I am 31year old female, works in a corporate environment, drive a decent car, live in a suburb, dolled up (make up, hair, nails) fairly beautiful =O) (i''d like to think)...

My problem is that i do not attact men of such calibre - decent, educated, well mannered etc etc! We could be having offices renovated and guess what? the contractors will be checking me out - no, not their boss, supervisor or whatever.... i will be in a mall or wherever i just attract people of a different ideology!

i do not " class"  people, my baby''s father was a tiler (whom i believed could build himself up and propably have a company of his own) that did not happen apart from us splitting. I don''t know what it is that i''m not doing to attract men that can take care of me you know (should anything happen to me) or at least someone that can compliment me! I stand the risk of being judged by those that do not understand where i''m coming from, but i need someone who can at least meet me half way!

Thanks
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

The quesion may not really be about why you MEET such peopl - there aere enough of them around - but why you choose to date them and stick around them. Maybe some types of guy are obvious about "checking you out" ; you don't have to respond to them, other than politely. And having a child with someone is rather more than just being polite. Maybe the sort of guys you would prefer are less obvious, and you'd need to figure out where to meet them and let them get to know you ?
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