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16 Apr 2006

why do I like brunettes who highlight their hair red?? haha
I've heard that psychologically we like women who have the same colour haiir as our mother's pubic hair when come out of the vagina right after birth. And that most men like women with larger breasts because they saw their mom's breasts were bigger when they saw their mother's breasts for the first time which were obviously bigger for breastfeeding.
In psychology you guys say that at a certain age it is normal for a child to want to have sex with the parent of the opposite sex. Is this true?
And that we are usually attracted to people who are like our mothers or fathers?
Dont you think it's interesting that we are all attracted to different physical attributes? I think it is.
Why do some people enjoy eating the excrement of others? And some of it is associated with porn sites. Why do people do that?
Perhaps they are trying to punish themselves? How could anyone associate this with pleasure? Even sex? I believe this phenomenon has a name/condition name right?
I'm sorry it's a gross question but every knows there are people who do this. Ten there are people wh drink their urination in the morning to get al the vitamins that were not absorbed from the night. Perhaps thatactually works, I cannot make fun of it really because perhaps it is very useful in a health way. But I can ay that drinking one's own urine is perhaps not even as tasty as cewing a vitamin tablet even though that must taste pretty bad hey doc?
Thanks for answering these tough questions.

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Curious theory, dh. From my experiences for some years of delivering babies, this is wildly improbable. Many women get shaved before delivery, and anyhow, babies come out with their eyes rather understandably closed, and get whisked off before they have time to turn round and look. Never mind any possible increase in size of breats during breast-feeding ; in comparison to the baby, all breasts are huge ; and almost all breasts encountyered in later life would be smaller by comparison.
Us guys do not say its normal for a child to want to have sex with a parent of the opposite sex --- something like that was one of Freud's daft theories, few of which have stood up to scientific scrutiny or testing. Maybe a pattern is liking people of a sort we are familiar with. I doubt that we like people who happen to resemble an abusive mom or dad.
As to people being sexually turned on by different things, yes, this is curious. Especially the patterns of being excited by things which are either not parts of the human body, or parts of it, like people who are excessively turned on by leather, or rubber garments which i would think would be very uncomfortable and sweaty. You seem to be thinking of coprophilia, which is actually rare except perhaps in some groups of severely retarded and neglected kids. There is no evidence that drinking urine has any health benefits whatever, though some astern systems do indeed promote this. COnsidering that the task of the kidneys is to enable to body to get rid of chemicals which are either harmful or unneeded, its hard to imagine what benefits drinking urine could be expected to have. Even if there were some unabsorbed vitamins in urine, this would only happen when one's body stores of those vitamins were already full and not needing any more, so whatever tiny amounts of vitamins were in the urine would be promptly re-excreted.
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