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02 Feb 2004

Why does he keep thinking Im chaeting on him?
My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while. since the begining of our relationship a year and a half ago, every time I go somewhere by myself or go to the gym he thinks im messing him around and cheating on him! Its driving me mad, i love him and would never do something like that! He cheated on me a while back and since then things have just gotten worse he gets all morbid and makes up silly stories about some numbers on my phone and where i really am. he sits and concocts stories about how im meeting people in private and how im ganging up on him etc. he's degrading me while doing it and no matter how much I tell him that i wont the less he believes me, he says that he cnat help it and that he cant see what he's doing wrong!!!! Im at a wits end and my trust in myself is lost, he blames everything that goes wrong on me, says i stole things from him and falsley accuses me of averything I dont do!!1 What can i do to make him believe me?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Deasr Help2,
Sounds rather paranoid ( pathologically suspicious /jealous ) doesn't it ? Is tis a relaionship really worth persisting with, if he continues to be so untrusting and suspicious ? Wouldn't it be kinder to both of you to consider ending the relationship and eac hoping for better luck next time ? Or, if you both feel it's worth trying to fix this relationship, see a marriage / relationship counsellor and work together on understanding and solving the issues.
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