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22 Jul 2005

Why is he not popping the question?
Hi there all

My b/f and I have been together for 4 years now. I would really like to get engaged now - at least anyway. He promised that it would be before the end of the year but as December draws closer I can't help but feel dissappointed. We have been on many weekends away - alone (perfect opportunities) but still nothing. Is he scared of commitment or what? How do I deal with the situation appropriately. I don't speak to him about it because I don't want him to feal pressured but I also don't want to wait forever. He is a very stubborn guy but I do love him to bits. What should I do.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I don't know him, and we haven't met.ALl you can usefully do is to sit down calmly and talk this through with him. It is possible to speak about it without forcing him to feel pressured.
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