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16 Nov 2004

Why me?
I cannot understand by this world is so full of cruel people.Why do people hurt other people.I have been sexuely abused twice in my life and it has a huge impact on my life.Like a part of me is very scared and it effect my relationships with other people.I can't trust anyone.Will I ever overcome it?I can forgive but not forget.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear Lonelyness,
I don't belive you have to forgive, at least not in the sense of making the perpetrator feel any better about what he did. But its worth forgiving in the sense of letting go and not clinging to the past events as a prisoner of the butterness they have caused. A counselo could really help you get through this, and wou can overcome it.
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