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03 Apr 2007

Why now, after 5 years??
Hi there

I Posted here about a month and a half back, i wanted to go overseas for a year, but what do i do?????? we have been dating now for 5 years, and yes i do love him... its just that i feel deep down i want to see the world, and no he wont come with me, he will say go and he will leave me, am i crazy?? am i selfish?? do i deserve him?? the thing is we fight alot, we make up, fight, make up... but i do do do do do love him, i mean he is my first love... why do i feel i need to go, its been in my mind for a month and a half now, i tried forgetting about it, but somehow it just pops up... if i get more saying dont go then i wont, more saying go, i think i will be much more certain...i think. Please tell me if i am an idiot, dont be scared, i need a slap anyway,

tx in advance...
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Its actually not uncommon in life to find that there's more than one thing we want, and that they contradict each other, and thus we have to make a choice, of either one or the other ; or at least postpone the one for some time, to enable the other to be possible.
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