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04 Apr 2006

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im a divorced woman of 35 yrs- single for few years- i've met this gentleman in a meeting of 30 minutes once in my life where we have to introduce ourselves - after that meeting i kept on thinking about him for weeks- up until i learn to forget about him. After two months we met at the mall and he apparently recognised me called me by my name- right now we are on speaking terms- by the way he is married- he calls me although i dont call him at all. We regards ourselves as friends- we spend lot of hours on the phone talking about absolutely nothing- i feel very attracted to him but i am ok if we friends as i wouldn't want any person to through divorce- besides he never told me what are his intentions- we just talk, my problem is that i am very attracted to him- im afraid he might be aware of that and stop to be friends- i just dont want to loose his friendship- i just need any advise- but i dont want him to know that i am attracted to him. What do i need to do- please help
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Friends, who are just friends, are a normal and pleasant thing. But maybe you two need to discuss your mutual intentions, rather than let this drift into areas in which everyone connected could get hurt.
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