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02 Dec 2004

WORLD AIDS DAY v/s LUST or spicing sex life up
i was just wondering after seeing all that aids documetaries last night on tv what do ppl think of such alternative sexual activitys that r always discussed in this forums like swinging, 3-somes 4 somes orgys all in the name of spicing up a sexual life of a particular couple or as a fantasy and so foth. did it only give a differnet point of view only to me. AIDS is a reality and is killing both black and white out there. it is hurting to see those poor orphans and to think that most or some have no parents and are looked after by grandparents and families because of our recklessness for selfish reasons.

is it really necessary to spice up sex life?
is it sex life not love making?
aren't we confusing love (relationship and marriages) and lust?
if we were talking bout spicing up lovelife as opposed to sex life i belive we will start considering our children and start focusing on enhancing on the areas that selflessly involve all of us (men, women, daughters and sons, grandparents and families and so forth).

I think that everytime one begins to think SEX subtitute that thought with "LOVE MAKING' and begin thinking broader than you dick in her -|- or other way round. Start asking who else in involved and is affected. Can be AIDS. Can be another child to the family. Can be far-reaching consequences. before you say "SEX", "SWING", "3SOME", "ORGY", "1NIGHT STAND", "CHEATING" , "OFFICE SEX", "OFFICE FUN (involving stealing sex)", " -|- BUDDY", "NON-COMMITTAL SEX", "FLING" and so forth think again and think who else is involved ( your children, their children, their partners and spouses, their family, your family, AIDS, DEATH, ORPHANS, SUFFERING) and STOP IT.

I know HIV/AIDS do not mean death one still can leave longer if they succeed in living positively with right support (emotional, medical and so forth). AIDS KILLS millions of people the world over. Condoms are probably not 100% safe, they can break and things like that. STOP THE SPREAD OF AIDS. KNOW YOUR STATUS NOW!
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01 Jan 0001

In the kitchen I understand that people only feel the need for adding excessive Spice to a meal when the meat in it is already bad or of very low quality --- the aim is surely to enhance the natural flavour. And so it should surely be with sex and love-making. And though poverty and poor education may help some of the ways in which AIDS spreads, a high proportion of those dying of it are each country's most highly educated and most privileged people, so the solution must still lie in a change of atitude towards sex, it's purpose and function. The idea that one should have as much sex as possible, with as many people as possible, which seems frighteningly common among people of all sections of the community, is a killer.
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