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08 Nov 2006

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I thought I am the only one who has a problem with Xhosa boyfriend until I saw the last email my boyfriend is the same as that one last time he told me he wants to marry me because he want to balance his finances and he also has a daughter whom he spoils more than anyone, everytime he talks he will bring the subject that he is financially broke, and that he needs someone who will uplift him
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

As kat implies, it rather depends on how you see yourself --- it sounds like a very business-like arangement from his side --- he wants a sugar-mommy who will pay for everything and ensure that his daughter remains spoiled --- what on earth would be in it for you ?
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