Ask an expert

21 Aug 2007

I have been married to my husband for 2 months now and we have alot of problems he always puts his family first and doesent realise that me and my daughter should be put first yesterday we had a big fight actually we have been fighting alot lately because of his family.So i couldent stand it anymore so i packed my backs and left i dont know if i did the right thing because i know he loves me and i love him alot but i also think i cant stand the fact of living with his parents anymore and want to be on our own .When i asked him if we could talk and try sort our problems out he said his to tired and i am always nagging him but i feel we need to talk and sort out things thats the only way we will know what each other feels.i really dont now what to do anymore i love him and want things to work out between us .Pliz help
Answer 308 views

01 Jan 0001

Why not tell him that you know he loves you, and that you really love him, but these points of friction are causing too much trouble, and invite him to join you in seeing a marriage counsellor ? Don't the pair of you have a plan to get your own place before too long ? Isn't it OK to live with his parents until a better option becomes available ?
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical examination, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.
Voting Booth
Have you entered our Health of the Nation survey?
Please select an option Oops! Something went wrong, please try again later.
32% - 9428 votes
68% - 19896 votes