Ask an expert
Question

28 Jan 2009

younger guy
I have met this guy - he is 31 and I am 37. Age does not worry me, but he looks so young that people look when we together. Sometimes I feel that he is looking to an older woman to move in with - he has mentioned this twice although I am not sure if he was joking. He lives with his dad, so maybe he sees this as a way out. Im also concerned that maybe it is financial as well, as he has recently started his own company. He has given me no proof of this though as he has always paid when we have gone out. I have only been seeing him for 2 weeks, so very new, but I dont want to carry on with something if I have all these doubts already. Any advice?
Answer 303 views
Expert
CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

too complex for any simple answers. Why does he still live with his dad at 31, rather than on his own ? This may be sinister or entirely reasonable. Older women are desirable in their own right, or may find some men attempt to exploit them. Presumably your best bet is to continue cautiously and be open to opportunities to find out more about whether his expectations meet yours
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical examination, diagnosis and formal advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.
Voting Booth
Have you entered our Health of the Nation survey?
Please select an option Oops! Something went wrong, please try again later.
Results
Yes
31% - 9520 votes
No
69% - 20870 votes
Vote