(Yawn)-you know Zaza, keep your pants on, i am sick todeath of people on this forum that jump on their high horse and become so defensive when some of us ask ordinary questions on this website.all I am trying to do is help my friend because she is coming across as somebody she is not, forgets to mention her child(which i think is the most important thing to mention) and in the end it will be to her detriment and she will get hurt. I have already told her such but all i wanted to know from some others on this site if I was right in telling her.aI am in no way running her down or being judgemental, i only mentioned those points to give the readers an idea of what type of person she is, etc so please think before you comment.