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24 Jul 2006

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1.Is it alright for 2 gay guys to have sex without a condom if both is HIV Negative?

2.Is it Alright to mastrubate in private while fantas. about sum1 else (not ur partner) when u r in a relastionship?

3. Is it possible to GO STRAIGHT? after you've been gay?-when i spoke to my pastor about being gay he said 'God can make you "normal" again look at me God changed me'- oky lets not do the religion thing! i am a Christian and i believe God made me the way i am. I'm HAPPELY GAY AND HAPPELY CHRISTIAN.

thanks guys and guls ;)
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Spiderman and welcome to the forum. Please accept my sincere apology for my slow response.

1) If both guys are HIV positive, sex without a condom is fine. However the question needs to be asked: how sure are you that your partner is negative? Remember the window period in HIV tests - rapid tests currently have a window period of 6 - 8 weeks, so if either of you were infected six to eight weeks prior to your latest test, your infection would be unlikely to show up in an HIV test.

2) Totally OK. That's what fantasy is about. Relax and enjoy your fantasies.

3) NO - it is not possible to change your sexual orientation, even with God's help. Who can really know whether Jesus was straight or not? There's plenty of room for being both gay AND Christian.
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