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23 Nov 2005

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I'm in a straight relationship and I enoy when my girlfriend stimulates and penetrates my anus, we use a double special strap-on dildo and she enjoys it also, I can experience intense orgasm without genital stimulation, would I still experience the same if I woud have sex with a man? and if so, would that mean I'm gay or bi? I have never had sex with another guy, but my girlfriend say she would enjoy watching, I also heard that anal sex is not so bad, it is just another way of great enjoyment and the sexologyst enven say anal sex can be beneficial, could you explain? Thnx.
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Georgian and welcome to our forum.

I'm impressed that you and your girlfriend are able to enjoy anal sex with your toy, and I bet many people would want to know where you bought your double-ended strap-on.

Many straight men have fantasies of anal sex, including fantasies of being anally penetrated. This doesn't make them gay or bisexual.

On a purely physical level you'd probably enjoy being penetrated by a man, but sex is not only about physical sensation - only you will know how you'd feel in the context of being so sexually vulnerable with another man. Having your girlfriend present may alleviate some anxiety as you'd probably be able to frame it as a bisexual, as opposed to a gay, encounter.

Anal penetration can be beneficial for men in that prostate stimulation, in addition to being highly pleasurable, can prevent ducts within the gland becoming blocked.
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