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06 Dec 2005

Dont know what todo ?
I have been in a relationship with a guy for some time, he loves very much, i just cannot get myself to love him like he loves me. This has lead to alot of sadness in my own life. The other dilemma is that I am in love with this other guy who just does not love me like I him.

What should we do in life ? Should we stay in a relationship where we are loved by someone or should I pursue a relationship where I love someone who does not love me as much as I love him. ?

I am torn apart by this issue and dont know what todo please help >
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Anon and thanks for posting on our forum.

I'm curious why you remain in your current relationship, and I'm equally curious about how your partner experiences the relationship. I'm also wondering how you quantify love.

You present two options, but there's a third - how about spending some time on your own till you can sort this out in your own mind?
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