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01 Aug 2008

A while back my younger sister fell pregnant. She asked me to take care of the baby when it is born, since she is still finding her feet. My gf and I thought it would be a great idea. So three weeks ago, the baby was finaly due to live with me... she is 20months old now. My gf of 4 years was helping me prepare my place for the little one and it all seemed fine. The night before I was to go fetch the baby, my gf told me that I have to choose between her and the baby, as she feels that once my little niece lives with me, I will not give her attention as I used to. She told me that if I go ahead and fetch the baby, we are over.

I went ahead and fetched the baby anyway, since everything was prepared, and yes, she said she never wants to hear from me again. That happened two weeks ago. I really love her, with all my heart, but I can' t let my niece down. Today I feel like I can' t go on without her... we have been through so much together. I am trying so hard to resist the urge to call her and beg her to come back to me.
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Mary - I'm so sorry I'm only responding now so please post again and update us?

A warm hug to you.
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