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11 Jul 2008

In love with someone

I am completely in love with a guy, he is HIV+ and we have talked about it and sorted it out, it doesnt bother me at all and should anything sexual happen we both know the consequences and we are prepared and more than willing to be safe.

The only thing that bothers me is when we spend time together he is in such a great mood, i have spent a couple of nights at his place but when i speak to him on the phone or he sms's me he is always so short... almost to the point of rudeness...

Ok so here is my questions. Am i crazy for loveing someone with my whole heart with every fibre of my being that i know wont be able to grow old with...

Second question, am i being paranoid about his shortness when we communicate not in person? Probably am...

Thank you and i eagerly await your responses
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi JD and thanks for this post.

The fact that this guy is HIV positive doesn't mean you won't grow older together, but be wary of loving someone to such an extent that you lose your individual sense of self.

As others have said, some people are simply not "chatty" on the phone - don't take offense at his being short or curt on the phone. The main thing is that there's magic when you guys are together.
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