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16 Aug 2007

its amazing
ive been looking at this site for some time now, and its amazing when you read through everyones problems, you see that we are not alone. its also weird how most gay people have more negative things to say on this site than positive, dont mean it in a bad way, but what i mean is that we have life hard (no pun intended), we either have (like me) parents who dont accept us, work struggles, being looked at weirdly, struggle to find the same sex who is interested in us and then guys who think that they can have sex with us and we will suddenly realise we are missing out., trying to find a way to have children, its a whole process, but at least things are getting brighter, if we compare our lives to those who grew up before the 90's, as time goes on, im sure that walking holding your girlfriends hand will be as natural as eating an ice cream in public. i have been engaged to my girlfriend for 2 years and we have been dating for 3, i want my parents to accept it, but they think i am sick. what i dont understand is this: if someone really loves you, dont they want you to be happy regardless? because i have been bought up christian, i am scared of death, and hell, guess death because im afraid like in the bible, that if i am gay i will go to hell. BUT THEN at least i lived happy!!! anyway i am conflicted, how can God put someone in hell whos only sin was love?
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01 Jan 0001

A warm welcome to you BatGirl and thanks for posting.... Great responses and I have nothing to add.
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