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25 Jul 2005

my secret
I've been married for 18 years now i have a wonderful husband
but since before my marriage i have the desire to sleep with a woman just to feel how does it feel.
My husband has no idea whats going on my mind for the last 18 years do you think i'm bi-sexual. i never sleep with a woman in my life but i want to try. Do you think its a great idea or not?
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hello Engela

You've been carrying this around in your mind for a very long time.

There are several issues here. If you were to have sex with a woman (or a man, for that matter) outside of your marriage, how would that impact on your relationship with your husband, and your sense of yourself in that relationship. For example, would you feel guilty and what would you do with that feeling? Secondly, what would transpire if you slept with a woman and you decided that this is what you want? I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't explore this, but I am urging you to consider the possible consequences. If you're OK with this, and realistic about where this could lead you, you should go for it. You owe it to yourself.

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