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12 Mar 2007

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Oh my Goodness....

Please bear with me....i'm very depressed now and i know its not the depression and anxiety forum.

Last nite i broke up with my first boyfriend.....Why i hear you ask....well lets get one thing striaght i havent been all holly in this 2 month and 2 week relationship....been to the Hothouse 3 times and kissed 2 guys while in relastionship.

Well i just felt he doesnt treat me like a boyfriend...like the way he speaks to me...like on Friday nite we spend the nite at his friends place...i got tired and head off to bed- without saying goodnite- personally i don't say goodnite....i'm a kinda guy that don't give a >#%$... someone that doesnt want to follow the normal trend...i guess i could say...like for example i will not ask How are you doing today....and you will not catch me saying Happy Birthday....because i find people say it out of routine and half of the time they dont mean it....so if i really want to greet someone i will hung them....ANYWAY i'm getting of the story here so he got into the room switched the light on and said that its rude just to go to sleep without saying anything....he then left without switching the light off i then said hey will you switch the light off, he then said do it your self and walked out. And there is alot of small thing that bothered me like i sometimes want to hang him or kiss him...he will then say i'm not in the mood or not now....So last nite i asked him if he loves me...he then said He loves me..BUT he's not in love with me. I then asked him what does that mean.....he said he doesnt know but there is a differance. So i cried lastnite sniffing while the tears was rolling off my cheek....he then asked me if i am alright...i then replied by saying i dont want to talk anymore.

Now what de hell is going to happen to me now (tears in my eyes) i'm back to square one....no friends ....no boyfriend...
no #$%& nothing....I sense a very hardcore therapy session with my therapist on Wednessday! AAah i'm loosing it 22 years old lost my Job....broke as hell...without any friends....no boyfriend....no
%^&$ nothing.

Sorry if i went a bietjie bos in this post....i just had to let go.... maybe some of the wise cyber peeps like Nikki or Tammy can type something in respond.

xxx
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01 Jan 0001

Hi Spiderman, good to hear from you again and I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing such a rough time. If you feel you need to speak to someone before you see R on Wednesday feel free to come in to Triangle Project tomorrow (Tuesday) - it sounds as if you need some professional support.
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