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06 Aug 2007

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Ok, It’s official. I’ve done the stupidest thing in the whole wide world…

Don’t know who of you remember… But my ex (we broke up twice before) asked me to move in because we are very good friends now (I still have a crush on him) so I said… YES!! Stupid, don’t you think?
So I moved in on Monday and was ready to play house-house and a couple of day later he SMS (sms? For pete’s sake) me and told me he met another man.
When we spoke about this (after I didn’t sleep… cried… shouted at the staff and so on, and thinking those sleeping pills looks very good now) he told me that he would be really mad if I move out and I must get over him so that we can continue to stay friends…

And I know the right thing is move out… but it is so difficult…

And he looks so happy… I am actually glad he is…

Thanks for listening (reading)
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gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi again CraZy....

Forget about what's good for your ex - think about what's good for YOU. If you need to move out, do so... as long as it is in your own interests.
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