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08 Dec 2005

Whats wrong with me?
Hi there guys

Just a question i am attracted to guys ans well as girls..

a guy with nice leggs a sexy butt just turns me on..so m i gay or what?
i love making friends and love chatting but what to do with these mixed emotions and feelings?
any advise... jhb guy
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gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Jhb Guy and thanks for posting on our forum.

No-one is 100% straight or 100% gay - we're all situated somewhere on the continuum between these two extremes. You're somewhere in there, on that continuum - which probably means that you're bisexual. And it is perfectly normal to be attracted to both men and women.

Don't experience bisexuality as a problem. Rather, choose to frame it positively, as a 'blessing'. Most of us are primarily sexually and romantically attracted to EITHER men OR women - if you're equally attracted to both your world could be much richer. Imagine an artist who paints with many colours as opposed to an artist who only paints with shades of blue.

Relax with this. Accept who you are and enjoy it, and always respect your partner.

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