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22 Nov 2005

wonder net!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ek dink alle verhouding kan mooi wees hetsy vrouens met vrouens of mans met mans, maar ek wonder of almal christelike waardes het. So baie skryf dat hulle met daai een 'n verhouding het maar slaap saam met die een. Dit klink maar vir my na 'n orgie. Of die man wat getroud is met 'n vrou wat saam met haar vriendin se man slaap. Is dit nie hoekom mense so teenkantig is teen gays en lesbians nie. Soveel mense kry seer en wat my die hartseerste maak is dat daar partykeer kinders betrokke is.
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Wonder Net and thanks for your posting, which I see has ruffled a few feathers.

Christians do not have sole rights to functional, enduring and loving relationships - many people who have very functional relationships do not share your Christian values, while many people who profess such values are guilty of incest, infidelity and domestic violence. Heterosexual relationships are no more functional or enduring than same-sex relationships, as manifested in the high divorce rate - and more children get harmed by dysfunctional straight relationships than they do through same-sex relationships.

Most people are prejudiced against gay and lesbian people because of ignorance and being socialised according to heterosexist values. Some gay people are promiscuous, as are some heterosexual people.

Please note that this is an English-medium forum - please see my response to question 459 - and if we promote Afrikaans we must also cater to all eleven official languages in South Africa. In that light, the posting by 007 to Eish (following) is disrespectful.

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