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13 Feb 2004

Dry and then all closed up....HELP!!!
Im 22 and lately when my bf and I want to have sex the following happens.

While having foreplay I get totaly wet and fully arroused but as soon as he wants to put his penis in it is as if I go as dry as can be. The other times I stay wet but it is as if I close up and it hurts for both of us when he tries to put his penis inside of me.

We never hav this problem before it is just about the last to weeks.

Can it be because I might be worried? I still stay with my folks, but in a granny flat but they can walk in at anytime and they don't know that we are sleeping together. Can this maybe cause this reaction.

PS: We are using condoms.

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01 Jan 0001

It sounds like your problem is related to tension around the fact that your parents could catch you. You are therefore tensing your muscles. You could try going somewhere more private. If you are having a regular sexual relationship, condoms alone are not particularly safe. You might consider a more reliable method of contraception.

Best wishes
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